A great many people do believe that to be single is to be somehow incomplete and that they need to find their “other half.” […] We believe, on the other hand, that the fundamental sexual unit is one person; adding more people to that unit may be intimate, fun, and companionable but does not complete anybody. The only thing in this world that you control is yourself - your own reactions, desires, and behaviors. […] When you have built a satisfying relationship with yourself, then you have something of great worth to share with others.
— Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy, The Ethical Slut (via penseesduchoeur)
the plant queen: spacephantom: just like please don’t be a negative force in the world...
just like
please
don’t be a negative force in the world cause god fucking knows there’s enough of that already, honestly
fucking spread love and embody positivity and help others when they need it and push for justice. call out injustice and hate and negativity when you see…










